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So, what is a rim job? Learn why it's enjoyable, how to make it safe, and the best tips for giving and receiving.

Learn how to enjoy rimming safely with advice on hygiene, protection against STIs, and communication with your partner. Free Lustery video included!

What Is a Rim Job? Everything You Need to Know About Rimming

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 is a slang term we use to describe analingus, which refers to oral stimulation of the anus. We use a lot of different terms for this (rim job, ass-to-mouth rimming, analingus, eating ass) but in reality, it’s like any other oral sex act. 

Using your tongue to please your partner is something many people actually enjoy doing, and likewise, having a tongue used on you for sexual purposes can be quite pleasurable for the receiver… and analingus is no exception to this. 

People like rim jobs because they feel good. One of the other exciting things about rimming could be the slight taboo around it or the surprise sensation if you’ve never experienced it before. 

How does one prepare for rimming? Whether you shave and how extensive your cleansing prep is before the act is completely up to you and your partner, but there are some safety factors you should keep in mind that are less flexible. 

You and your partner have spoken about it before and can communicate openly. 

If it’s something you’re both interested in incorporating into your foreplay.

You have poor digestion that day (gas, diarrhea, constipation, etc) - as this can very quickly turn from a fun time to a not-so-fun time without much notice. 

If you have open sores (like hemorrhoids, for example) - as this is not particularly safe for rimming. 

STIs - such as hepatitis A, HPV, syphilis, and gonorrhea - can indeed be transmitted from rim jobs. So STI testing before engaging in analingus is always a good idea. Additionally, you can always be on the lookout for cuts on the tongue, lips, and gums or the giver or the rectum of the receiver. These cuts can become entry points for infection and transmission of STIs. 

You can also use a dental dam if you want to be extra safe. While dental dams aren’t used super often, they do add a layer of protection between yourself and your partner’s skin, meaning you can both enjoy rim jobs and oral sex without actually having skin-to-skin contact. 

What about bacteria (you know, from poop)? 

This is a very common worry and something that can be easily prevented. Bacteria from poop (like Giardia, a microscopic parasite passed through feces) can be transmitted during rimming. However, most bacteria can be combated by using warm water and (antibacterial) soap before engaging in these activities. 

Otherwise, rimming can be done safely and it can be quite fun. Don’t let nerves or any embarrassment stop you from engaging in something you like to do!

Sure, anything anal can come with a side of awkwardness - whether it’s the clean up to prep, the afterthought clean up or just the mental barrier some people have with anal play - but thoughtful communication will go a long way to making sure this is something both partners can enjoy. 

An enema is an injection of fluids used to cleanse or stimulate the emptying of your bowel. In other words, it’s cleaning out your anus so that anal play in any form (anal fingering, anal sex, rimming, etc) is easier and cleaner. This is also referred to as anal douching and some people do it in preparation for any kind of anal play in the bedroom. 

Why do people do enemas before engaging in anal play?

To be blunt, the idea is to empty themselves and make penetration easier and cleaner. 

Do you have to do an enema before rimming? 

No, absolutely not. To be clear, you don’t have to do an enema before any kind of anal play. It’s something that some people choose to do so that they are better prepared for anal stimulation. In the case of rim jobs, enemas may even seem a little unnecessary. If you’re not planning to engage in anal penetration to accompany the rim job, the need to ‘empty yourself out’ before the act is not so important. 

Whether or not you decide to include an enema in your rim job prep is entirely up to you. If you do wish to do so, at-home enema kits are very easy to use. 

How to bring up rimming with your partner

Anal play (including rimming) can be a tricky topic for some people, even if you’ve been together for a long time. Some people love anything anal (and if you’re one of those people, check out our 

, you’ll love it, I swear)… and others may have some reservations about it. 

While there are still some taboos around analingus or anal play, most of the hang-ups we have about this foreplay act may be mental barriers we’ve created for ourselves. With proper prep work (cleansing the area, discussions around boundaries, etc), rim jobs can be added to your sex life relatively easily. 

First, you want to talk to your partner about it. Bringing it up in the moment (during foreplay) may seem exciting and fun, but you don’t want to risk putting pressure on your partner to say yes to something they may not have thought through - so try to have a relaxed discussion about rim jobs outside of the bedroom. This way you can both align on your thoughts about it and how you both feel comfortable getting ready for the act.

Then, you want to align on what prep work should be done so both parties are safe. 

Most importantly, you want to figure out the before-and-after steps before engaging in this activity together. 

What are the cleansing steps you and your partner want to take before this happens?

What are the cleansing steps you want to take after the act?

Do you need anything prepared in advance (such as towels or wipes, etc)?

So… you and your partner want to engage in analingus but have no idea where to start. That is totally normal and very common. But let me put your mind at ease; rimming is simple, you’re probably just overthinking it. 

This is a technique that’s often used for cunnilingus (where you move your tongue in a swirling motion around the clit) and can also be used in this situation. You can simply glide or swirl your tongue around your partner’s anus, rimming the edge (which is actually how rim jobs get their name). 

Pay attention to the other stuff that’s also literally right there.

On partners-with-penises, there’s always the option to play with the balls or massage the perineum while you’re giving a rim job. On partners-with-vulvas, there’s the opening of the pussy and the clit that you can stimulate. Don’t get so focused on analingus as a solo event, but try to incorporate it into your foreplay as a whole. 

Check in with your partner about what feels good. How do you know if it’s feeling good for your partner? Ask them. This doesn’t have to be a business transaction, either. Some example check ins might be:

Those are all great check in lines that can be used as dirty talk and as a point of check in to see if your partner is enjoying themselves. 

What about positions? What is the best rim job position?

Great question, I’d love to tell you. As an experiment for the purposes of this article (and not at all for personal reasons - wink, wink), I’ve tried some rimming positions and can report back that there are quite a few that work very well. 

Doggy-style from behind gives your partner amazing access to not only your ass (spreading the cheeks, burying their face in there) but also to other parts of you that can be stimulated at the same time. Missionary-style between the legs offers a very sensual vibe, allowing the receiver to engage more with the giver; running your hand through their hair and maybe even giving a slight tug on it when they hit just the right spot.

Face sitting is a must-try with this one, if you’re both into that kind of thing. Straddling your partner’s face and letting them go to town not only on your vulva but including your anus as well is something that gives you way more sensations than I can even describe. 

What’s the big deal? It’s just eating ass.

At the end of the day, rim jobs are becoming more popular all the time, and for good reason. Have you ever heard the saying ‘opinions are like assholes, everyone has one’? While the witty anecdote is often used to downplay someone else’s opinions, in this case, it can serve as a rather playful reminder that we do all, in fact, have assholes. 

Engaging in anal play during sex is not something you should ever feel embarrassed or ashamed of, because it’s just another part of your body that you’re using to experience pleasure. 

If you think about cunnilingus (or as it’s more widely known, eating pussy) and how normalized that has become, sometimes it seems quite odd that moving a few inches lower with your tongue is so polarizing. 

In many ways, analingus, or the act of rimming should be as casual as the act of cunnilingus or fingering. Yes, there may be some extra prep steps needed to ensure everyone is safe and comfortable, but otherwise, it’s a pleasurable sex act like any other. 

Alex & Sammm

It’s not every day that the open relationship of your dreams falls into your lap, though considering Alex & Sammm met at an acroyoga retreat welcoming in 2020, we hope the only falling involved was in love. With their sensational Lustery debut filmed a week before their wedding, the lovers say that while relationships aren’t always easy, on good days you can’t wipe the smile off their faces – and on real good days, they have sex up to five times! They also love sharing their sex life – whether through filming porn or inviting others to play.

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Newlywed Lustery couple Alex & Sammm love sharing their sex, either by inviting others to join in or by filming their own porn. Watch them in action on Lustery!

Age	36 & 30
Type	life-partners
Location	Buenos Aires, Argentina
Sex life	Raw

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