Out of the shadow of hetero- and cisnormativity, Trip and Ren’s relationship has gone from Tinder spark to blooming in bliss.

Trans queer couple Trip and Ren have a pleasure-centered relationship where shared experiences, perspectives and desires create safety to explore and play.

Now Sharing Their Sex Lives on Lustery… Meet Trip Richards and Ren Oxalis

Trip & Ren: A Queer Connection Centered On Pleasure

A queer millennial love story for the ages, sex worker Trip Richards and grad student Ren Oxalis first connected on Tinder. “The first thing we talked about was cats, the second thing was art, the third thing was sex ed, and the fourth thing was dismantling capitalism,” says Trip. “Our first ‘date’ lasted for eight hours, including being kicked out of a coffee shop because we were there after closing time.”

A year later, their relationship is characterized by kindness, compassion, laughter, and supportiveness. “We are safe to explore and play, yet there is space to be vulnerable and connect on a deeper emotional level,” says Ren.

“Ren is also the most thoughtful, knowledgeable, and communicative partner I have ever had,” adds Trip. “The fact that we’re both trans (I am a trangender man and Ren is nonbinary) and pansexual gives us a certain common language of perspective that’s really helpful for connection.” Their sex drives are equally in synch and the queer cuties say that they enjoy being around each other without sex being the focus and prefer centering pleasure rather than orgasms.

“The first thing we talked about was cats, the second thing was art, the third thing was sex ed, and the fourth thing was dismantling capitalism.”

That’s not to say that their relationship hasn’t been filled with sexy “learning opportunities”, like the time Trip expressed that he enjoys being fisted but finds it difficult to center his own pleasure, especially with femme partners. At the time, Ren had no fisting experience but was enthusiastic to learn and Trip felt comfortable allowing Ren to support his pleasure, they explain. The story ends with Trip having an intense orgasm and Ren driving home in a giddy daze, ravenous for the next opportunity to try something new together.

As it turns out, one of the next opportunity’s would be sharing their sweetest intimate moments on Lustery. “I have been a sex worker for many years, but Ren is new to being a performer,” says Trip. “When we started dating, I was obviously open with them about my career, but I never expected that we would end up collaborating. It was actually Ren’s suggestion that we start filming together!”

Trip Richards & Ren Oxalis

While their Tinder meeting may sound par for the course for millennials these days, the strength of sex worker Trip and grad student Ren’s relationship is that it doesn’t follow any scripts. After bonding over cats, art, and dismantling capitalism, the queer trans babes found a shared and safe space with each other. It’s allowed them to grow and learn together – including Ren’s first forays into fisting. “Trip is a service top who centers my pleasure, so I love every opportunity to help him orgasm,” says Ren.

Age	33 & 32
Type	primary-partners
Location	N/A
Sex life	Queer

Trip & Ren: A Queer Connection Centered On Pleasure

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Trip Richards & Ren Oxalis