This bonus episode of Getting in Bed travels around the world to check in with some of the couples we met last year. We want to know how they’re envisioning their sex lives for 2022.
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Full episodes from the featured couples aired on the following dates:
Marvin & Esluna — June 21, 2021 Yuli & Mateo — October 11, 2021 Silky & Velvet — April 17, 2021 Lee & Rei — November 22, 2021
Aria Vega [00:00:00] This podcast contains explicit content. Listener's discretion is advised. PO. by Lustery explores culture, politics and creativity in the sex industry, one point of view at a time. I'm your host, Aria Vega.
Aria Vega [00:00:17] Welcome back, lovers! I hope that 2022 is handling you with care. It's understandable if you feel a little wary entering yet another pandemic year, especially since the virus seems to have the upper hand right now, with the Omicron variant making the near future look impossibly bleak. What if we looked a little further down the line? This is exactly what I asked a few of our couples to ponder aloud for the Lustery community. Though coronavirus is still making our regular lives impossible to plan, that doesn't mean the same is true for our sex lives. In fact, being stuck at home for the past two years may have actually been a surprising opportunity for some of you to reinvent your sexuality. And maybe now you're ready to put the rubber to the road. In this bonus episode of Getting In Bed, the members of four Lustery couples are going to The Fucking Future to imagine out loud all of the brand new ways that 2022 will bless their sex lives. Whether you call it "making resolutions" or straight-up manifesting, these couples are calling in the power of intention to make the new year their most sexually adventurous yet. First up is Esluna and Marvin, the Dutch couple we met last summer on the show.
Esluna [00:01:41] Hi, Esluna here. Oh my God, I have so many things I would love to try for the first time. I think when I look back at 2021, it's my most sexual and experimental year that I ever had in my life. But for 2022, I would like to experience more BSDM stuff, especially in the submissive role with my partner in bed. And also, I will be able to do more anal. One of my biggest goals is to be able to do double penetration. Of course starting with toys, and then with real humans. Oh, and not to forget, but what I would love to experience is to go to a sex club.
Aria Vega [00:02:35] Esluna's partner, Marvin, also has his sights set on kinky things.
Marvin [00:02:40] I do think that I want to try some things in my current relationship, and I guess that's more BDSM. I would love to make more content for Lusteyr, of course, and every time we are making a new episode, we're adding a new adventure into our lives, and that's always positive. I guess I want to enjoy every possible moment with my partner having intimate and.or crazy, hardcore sex, and everything in between.
Aria Vega [00:03:12] I'm pretty sure that's the most romantic sentence I've ever heard. Intimacy is what it's all about, as Polish couple Yuli and Mateo would likely agree. First up, is Yuli with her hopes to explore a more spiritual side to sex.
Yuli [00:03:28] Hi everybody! In 2022, I would like to work on my sexual energy. So I start yoga this year, together with meditation and breathing exercises so the thing what is missing is tantric sex. I definitely want to try this. Me and Mateo start already slow sex, which is pretty amazing. So next year for sure, we will find some place to go, develop some tantra sex, and go inside our bodies, and maybe will record some video like that. That sounds really cool!
Aria Vega [00:04:13] Meanwhile, Mateo has a bit more border-crossing in mind.
Mateo [00:04:17] 2022 will be the best year for discover and develop my sexuality for the first time, because I never did it before. I'd like to have sex with my beautiful girlfriend, of course, Yuli, and a girl from other country. Why? Because 'til now, I only had sex with Polish girls, and never had sex with the girl with other nationality. It was always my desire, and I think it would be really super great if I could try it in bed in 2022.
Aria Vega [00:04:53] For Italians Silky and Velvet, introspection and solo play are key to what comes next for them, especially for Velvet, whose "fucking future" actually begins in the past.
Velvet [00:05:05] Before talking about my fucking future, I would like to say something about my life. I'm 35 years old now, and I spend most of my life living in a square box. I grew up with with a strong tradition, and those tradition doesn't make me feel comfortable with my sexuality. So it's time for me, for the next year, for a big change in bed and outside the bed, and I would love to do some cross-dressing. Of course, it's something that I really like, but I always felt shame about it. Something else I want to do in bed, I would, of course, I would love to be submitted by Silky. I'm a Taurus. I'm a big dickhead sometimes, so I really think I need a punishment. And next year, it's going to be a year for big change in bed and outside the bed. I just want to be myself, 100 percent.
Aria Vega [00:06:05] As a fellow bratty Taurus, Velvet is right. Sometimes we do just need some good old -fashioned punishment. Good thing Silky's ready to take control.
Speaker 7 [00:06:17] So happy to talk about my fucking future, and the first element is pleasuring myself. I tend to end up on masturbation sessions that are always the same, because I know what works for me, and I know how can... what helps me reach an orgasm, and I just do the thing and I can like orgasm a thousand times, but that's going to be always in the same way., So I would like to expand a little bit and maybe learn a little bit more about tantric sex and breath work. And the second aspect is linked to my partner, Velvet, because I normally end up in a submissive sexual relationship, and this is something I really enjoy, but we've been talking for a long time about dominance, and I would love to experience something related to a role play, and learn how to be more dominant in my sexual relationship. And I can't wait!
Aria Vega [00:07:46] And I can't wait to see the Lustery video that Silky and Velvet make of that scene. Finally, we have American couple Lee and Rei. Apparently, Esluna is not the only one dreaming of double penetration. Here's Miss Lee's fantasy.
Lee [00:08:03] There are many things I'd like to try to do in 2022 in bed with my husband, but from all of them, I think I would like to try a double penetration contest. We would both have sex toys of equal size and the same amount of lube, and we would be, I guess, video recording all of it, and seeing who could take the most inches how fast, and who could do it best. I'd also like to try a Jell-O wrestling contest as well because, you know, my husband loves WAM, and I wanted I've always wanted to try Jell-O wrestling with him.
Aria Vega [00:08:46] WAM, if you recall from this couple's episode, stands for Wet and Messy Fetish, of which Lee's husband, Rei, is an eager participant. But for 2022, Rei isn't only interested in real-world rendezvous.
Rei [00:09:01] What I'd like to actually do is build a virtual bed. It's sort of like a waterbed. You lay in it and then another piece comes down off the top, so it's sort of like the latex vacuum beds, but it's full sensation. So that way, when you're in a virtual simulation, you can feel everything, anywhere. And if you want to feel in your pussy, or in your mouth or in your ass, or any orifice, you just get the design that takes that part as well, so you can feel sensations that happen from the thickness to lucidity or whatever it may be.
Lee [00:09:39] Flaccidity?
Rei [00:09:39] Flaccidity, yeah there it is! I think that I would like to see you and me adventure in a virtual world, together as kinksters, and see what the reactions are like with our sexual behaviors in front of aliens. How about that?
Aria Vega [00:10:05] Thanks for joining us on this sensual, and even virtual, trip to the fucking future. If you'd like to hear more from the couples in this episode, check out the show notes for the air dates of their full length features on POV by Lustery. If you'd like to see these couples, you can certainly do that too. If you're 18 or older, head on over to lustery.com for a glimpse of what these folks got up to back in the fucking past. If you're into the show, please leave us a five-star rating and a review. POV is brought to you by Lustery, and this episode was hosted by me, Aria Vega. It was edited and produced by Kathryn Fischer and Adrienne Teicher, and our showrunner is Paulita Pappel. Lustery is the home of real-life partners filming their sex lives behind closed doors. If you're 18 or older, you can find us at lustery.com, and we're on Twitter and Instagram @lusterypov. Speak soon, lovers!