Let’s talk about marriage that’s built on communication, trust, and desire. These five love stories of Lustery couples show marriage beyond old-school norms. 

Let’s talk about marriage and how it’s evolving. From open relationships to kinky dynamics, these five couples are rewriting the rules and redefining “I do.” 

Let’s Talk About Marriage: Beyond Monogamy

Let's Talk About Marriage: Couples Redefining ”I Do” 

Let’s talk about marriage and how it isn’t what it used to be—we think that’s a good thing. For decades, we were fed the idea that love looks one way: monogamous, heteronormative, and a little suffocating. But what happens when couples decide to throw out the old playbook? 

You get couples making their own rules, creating marriages that work for them—whether that means kink, polyamory, or just refusing to have sex with the same person til’ death do us part.

All of this isn’t to say that monogamy is inherently bad. This relationship type works for some people—but not all. If monogamy is right for you, making a 

 might be a useful framework for fidelity. With this, couples define what they deem fidelity to be while setting boundaries and expectations to uphold this. 

But for those who are looking to break the mold of traditional marriage, we've put together some prime examples of Lustery lovers doing things on their terms. 

These five Lustery couples refuse to force themselves into a mold that doesn’t fit. They prioritize honesty, desire, and, most importantly, choice. Marriage doesn’t have to mean sacrificing passion for stability or trading sexual exploration for routine—it can be whatever you want it to be. 

, or embracing a dynamic that keeps things exciting inside and outside the bedroom. The point is, that love thrives when it’s allowed to evolve, and these couples are proof that saying “I do” doesn’t mean saying “I’m done” with pleasure, freedom, or fun. 

So, let’s take a peek behind the bedroom doors of five Lustery couples whose love stories involve them writing their own rules. 

, marriage isn’t about blending into the background—it’s about pushing boundaries and embracing pleasure in all its forms. 

Even with three kids, Alice Lovegood & Mister Lovegood prioritize fluidity in their sex life as a way to keep things red-hot. Their dynamic is rooted in exploring their shared kinks, and a deep trust that allows them to explore the edges of desire together. 

Instead of seeing long-term commitment as a reason to settle into a routine, they’ve made it a playground for exploration, turning their kinks into a foundation for connection. And by bringing their passion to the screen, they’re not just deepening their bond—they’re proving that married sex can be anything but boring. 

Their love story is a lesson in how honesty, trust, and a shared hunger for sexual exploration can make a marriage stronger than ever.

“We are aware of the fluidity of relationships and connection, how they change and flow, and working with that rather than frantically swimming against the tide.” — Alice lovegood & mister lovegood

Jealousy is often seen as inevitable in relationships, but Lustery couple 

 are living proof that it doesn’t have to be.

Their marriage is built on complete transparency and a shared understanding that attraction isn’t a threat—it’s an opportunity. By embracing the 

 dynamic, they’ve found that watching each other explore new experiences brings them closer. There’s no need for secrecy or resentment when everything is done with love, respect, and a mutual desire for pleasure. 

Alex and Sammm are a reminder that a strong marriage isn’t about avoiding temptation—it’s about deciding, together, how to handle it.

“While dancing, Alex left to grab us drinks. A cute French girl came up to me and started kissing me. We were making out when Alex arrived back, a confused look on his face. In this moment, I curled my finger, encouraging him to come participate. This was the fifth day knowing each other and we knew instantly we were a perfect match.” — ALEX & SAMMM

Some couples keep their intimacy private, but 

Lustery couple Stella Sedona and Aaron Stone

As married porn pros, they’ve thrown out the idea that sex should be hidden or shameful, instead turning it into a source of joy, creativity, and connection. Their marriage is unconventional, sure—but it’s also built on some of the strongest foundations: trust, communication, and mutual pleasure. By filming their passion, they’ve created a space where desire never feels stagnant or routine.

 has been their gateway to amassing erotic experiences and we’re just lucky we get to watch.

“A few years ago, we opened up our relationship to other people and regularly go on dates and film sex tapes with our friends. It’s been one of the best decisions we've ever made and we love sharing our sex life with the world!” — Stella sedona & Aaron stone

Lustery couple Divine Rae and Godis Meaux

’s marriage is something simple: friendship. Sure, they share a deep love for kink, creativity, and pushing boundaries, but what really keeps them strong is that they genuinely like each other.

While chemistry is important, for them, their shared desire to create art paired with their passion for their community and humanitarian work, is what keeps their fire burning. Their marriage works because they’re each other’s safe space—whether they’re exploring fantasies, hanging out on a lazy Sunday, or navigating one another’s busy schedules. 

Divine Rae & Godis Meaux show us that the best marriages are based on teamwork. 

“Because of busy schedules, we find ourselves teasing throughout the day, edging, and keeping the excitement up until we can have sex. Daily play or touch is preferred, even if we can’t always make love for hours.” — Divine Rae & Godis meaux

, intimacy isn’t just a bonus—it’s a daily ritual. 

Whether it’s a slow, sensual morning session to start the day with a smile or a passionate nightcap before bed, they make sex a priority. Their marriage isn’t about waiting for the “right time” but creating space for pleasure, connection, and play. 

This intentional intimacy strengthens their bond, reminding them that love isn’t just about saying “I do” but about choosing each other—every single day. Their story proves that prioritizing pleasure can make a marriage even stronger. 

“A typical day is waking up and having great morning sex first thing. It sets the day off the right way. After that we do some work, which is also sex, and then before bed we make sure to wear each other out for a good night’s sleep.” — Joey Lee & Mav

Fuck “Normal”. Focus On What Feels Right.

At the end of the day, marriage isn’t about what’s “normal”—it’s about what works. 

Some couples choose monogamy, others embrace open relationships, and some turn their passion into art. The key to lasting love isn’t following someone else’s script—it’s writing your own. 

So, whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, let these couples be a reminder: love is at its strongest when it’s free to be exactly what you need it to be.