How they went from flirty dojo tussles to shared lovers, group sex and learning “anything is possible if you're brave enough to ask”.

Kinky polyamorous Lustery couple Joshua & Melanie met through their martial arts training, bonded discussing their ideal relationships and then realized they were each other’s perfect partner.

Joshua & Melanie: From Martial Arts To The Marital Arts

Joshua & Melanie: Martial Arts, Marriage & “Kinky Fuckery”

Joshua & Melanie met through met through Bujinkan Budo Taijutsu, a traditional Japanese martial art they’ve both been studying for well over a decade. “Once monthly, our dojos would travel to train together,” they said. “We always had flirty training tussles and amazing conversations. We would spend hours discussing life and our ideal relationship dynamics.” Yet, somehow despite the shared niche interest and clear compatibility, it took the polyamorous now-married lovers several years to figure out they were, in fact, each other’s ideal partner...

 After a training day together, Joshua invited Melanie back to his for coffee. “He had an altar at the foot of his bed displaying his shibari ropes,” she recalls. “Seeing his room turned me on in an unexpected way. I hadn’t considered us in that way until that moment and panicked a bit at the immediate wetness between my legs. Needless to say, I got over my moment of panic as our eyes locked and we kissed. He had the taste of another woman on his lips, from a tryst with his other partner that morning, and devoured me with my skirt up around my waist on his couch till I came hard and loudly.” And after that, there was no looking back.

 Almost a decade has passed since then and the free-spirited pair have been married for a year after eloping in Mexico. “Our relationship is playful, growth-based, communication-oriented, sweet, and sexy. We are honest with each other always. We are supportive and challenge each other in all the best ways. We enjoy playing in nature, adventuring, and cooking together,” they say. “We massage each other regularly, fuck each other voraciously, and love each other with compersion. We’ve built our base of love and communication strong enough to live the life we both always dreamed of... We have other lovers and share a long-distance significant other.”

“He had the taste of another woman on his lips, from a tryst with his other partner that morning, and devoured me with my skirt up around my waist on his couch till I came hard and loudly.”

 Not only have they built the life they’ve always dreamed of, but they’ve created the sex life of their fantasies too. One of their fantasies they were able to make a reality at a regional Burning Man event, a space, they say, “where it’s easy to find magic, be vulnerable, drop in deep and make friends, unwind, heal wounds, be lifted up, dance your ass off, and get wildly naughty”.

 “One fantasy that Melanie always had was to watch me explore my heteroflexible side,” says Joshua. The opportunity almost passed him by when a lover introduced the couple to some friends – ‘The Boys’ – and in the moment he was oblivious to the sexual potential. “Melanie helped me remember that here anything is possible if you’re brave enough to ask,” he adds, and the next day they did exactly that. After plenty flirting, dancing, and yes, negotiating boundaries, The Boys ended up back in Joshua and Melanie’s dreamy tent. “I’ve always thought I’d be a natural cock sucker, due to my fierce adoration for oral sex in general. The feeling of their thick hot fleshy cocks on my tongue and at the back of my throat was sexy as hell… Melanie is amazing at making herself cum, and with the fantasy unfolding in front of her eyes she pushed herself fully over the edge.”

Joining Lustery, they say, has come from a space of wanting to “share our exploration of love, passion and kinky fuckery”. “This honest, ethically crafted, and playful window into the love lives of so many humans is inspiring!”

Joshua & Melanie

Married polyamarous Lustery couple Joshua & Melanie describe their relationship as ‘manifeisty’, and there’s something to it! They first met in martial arts training and found themselves enjoying amazing conversations talking about their ideal relationships before finally realizing they were each other’s ideals. Almost a decade later, they’ve built their perfect life together with a sex life to match – think mind-expanding Burning Man events with shared lovers, group sex, and kinky explorations involving shibari, anal play and impact play.

Joshua

Melanie

‘Manifeisty’ Lustery couple and kinksters Joshua & Melanie have created their perfect life together, filled with shared lovers, group sex and shibari.

Age	35 & 45
Type	open-relationship
Location	Madison, United States
Sex life	Manifesty

Joshua & Melanie: Martial Arts, Marriage & “Kinky Fuckery”

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Joshua & Melanie