In honor of our new Lustery Dates series, we're hopping on the alphabet dating trend to give you our top date night ideas from A to Z. 

Alphabet dating is a fun way for couples to switch up typical date nights. With help form our Lustery couples, we've put together a list of date night ideas from A to Z. 

What Is Alphabet Dating? Creative Date Ideas From A-Z

Creative Date Night Ideas From A to Z (With the Help of Lustery Couples)

What is alphabet dating? The idea is pretty simple: plan date nights that follow the letters of the alphabet. “M” is for movie nights (or Lustery’s version: mutual masturbation), “T” is for trivia night, thrift shopping, or in our case, threesomes! You get the point. 

, we’re diving into the world of alphabet dating ideas, both casual and intimate. With this list, date nights will never get tiresome and you’ll never run out of new sexy things to try together. 

Go to an aquarium, visit an amusement park, go antiquing, or to an art gallery. After a day of fun outside, climb into bed together and explore some anal play for “A” great end to date night. 

a day at the beach like Lustery couple Josh & Evie

, or participate in a bar trivia night. Blowjobs go great with these “B” themed date ideas. 

Get creative and make crafts at home, go to a concert, on a morning date at a coffee shop, or take a cooking class together. Of course, don’t forget to take your time with some sensual cunnilingus for this “C” date night together.

Go on a dinner date. Or visit a drive-in movie theater, or a drag show, or take your dogs to the dog park together. After your activity, play a sexy game of truth or dare to complete the “D” date night.

Have you ever tried an escape room? You can even simply exercise together or eat out (if you know what I mean). To add some extra spice, 

Head to a festival together and dance the night away! Build a fort in your living room or visit a farmer’s market. For the sexy alphabet dating idea, try flirting and foreplay all day until one of you finally makes the first move.

If you want something more lowkey, game night is an excellent option. Other ideas include gardening, glamping (glamorous camping), or getting some gelato. If you’re feeling ready, explore group sex (threesomes, foursomes, moresomes) to cross “G” off your sexy alphabet dating list. 

Grab some happy hour cocktails at your favorite local spot or even the new place you’ve both been dying to try. Take a ride in a hot air balloon, go hiking, or arrange a horseback riding lesson. Go back to basics with a steamy handjob (made even better with lots of lube) or give each other cute little hickeys. 

Head out on an ice cream date. Other ideas include ice skating, like 

Chris and Kate Marley in their date night vlog video

. Or spending an intimate evening at home. For some added fun, make the entire day about how many sexual innuendos you can make to add some laughter to your day. 

Hop on into a jacuzzi or have a morning date at a juice bar. What’s a better way to end the date night than watching each other jerk off (and seeing how long it takes before one of you makes the first move)?

Who doesn’t love a karaoke night? Or if you’re more of a thrill-seeking couple try knife/axe throwing, or hit the water with kayaking. If you’re interested in exploring, try something kinky like using blindfolds and handcuffs during sex. 

Keep it simple with a lunch date. You can also enjoy some live music or visit your local library. After your fun date day out, write each other some steamy love letters. 

Go to a museum like Lustery couple Divine Rae and Godis Meaux

. Have a movie night, play mini-golf, or host a murder mystery party. For those in the kink community, going to a 

 could be a fun way to cross “M” off your list of alphabet dating ideas. For anyone not interested in that, you can always try some mutual masturbation to spice things up. 

A nature walk is always a good idea. Other ideas include nightclubbing, going to a nail salon, or visiting a night market. Another fun idea (if you want to get intimate) is having a naked art night, where you paint each other’s bodies or make a canvas of art during sex. 

Attend an origami class or an open-mic night at a local bar, or go to the opera. Explore different types of orgasms tonight and see if you can achieve one you’ve never had before… did you know there are 11 different kinds? 

For the adrenaline junkies out there, find paintball near you. For something more casual, join a pub crawl or take a pottery class together. If you want to try something new in the bedroom, cross “pegging” off your list.

Grab some friends for a quiz night. Other ideas include quilting or spending some quiet time indoors together. What’s better than a 

Cuddle up and watch a rom-com movie. Go on a road trip, read to each other, or visit a scenic rooftop bar. Looking for something new to try in the bedroom? 

 is the “R” date night activity you’ve been missing. 

Enjoy a couple's spa day or a sunset date. Visit a street fair, or do a scary movie night. Why not also try some submission and light bondage, while you’re at it? 

Who doesn’t love a trivia night? Other ideas include tapas night, visiting a theme park, or going thrift shopping. Indulge in an evening of teasing (stretching out the foreplay as long as you can) to top it all off. 

Our personal favorite, have an unplugged evening. Visit an underground (speakeasy) bar or host an “ugly sweater party’ together. While having an unplugged evening, focusing only on each other, why not surprise each other with sexy new underwear or lingerie?

Enjoy some healthy competition with a video game night. Volunteer or plan a vacation together. The only thing that can make video game night better is prolonged foreplay and teasing until you beat the game. 

Get outside and go wine tasting together, play at a water park, plan a weekend getaway, or take a woodworking class together. Why not try some wax play, too?

Play Xbox together or plan an exotic dining experience. While you’re at it, you might as well make some XXX-rated videos together.

Lustery couple Alex and Sammm with this yoga date

. Other ideas include “yes-day” (where you say yes to all activities you can think of), or visiting yard sales together. If you’re looking to add some yearning and lust back into your relationship, try adding orgasm control to your date night. 

go ziplining like Lustery couple Anca & Daniela

. You could even get a zodiac reading together. Zero in on each other for the last intimate act of the list, and spend an entire evening admiring each other’s bodies and celebrating your relationship. 

Whether you’re a new couple wanting to enjoy the honeymoon phase of your relationship or have been together a long time and are looking to spice things up, alphabet dating can give you that romantic boost you’ve been looking for. 