Emily and Jonathan first met through Emily’s girlfriend –an unconventional introduction that set the tone for the six years since then! 

Playing with others as well as playing with a BDSM power dynamic have always been part of polyamorous kinksters Emily and Jonathan’s sex life.

Now Sharing Their Sex Lives on Lustery… Meet Emily and Jonathan

Emily & Jonathan: Kinky Power Dynamics, Polyamory and Shared Sensuality

It was love at first sight when she first saw Jonathan on the dancefloor at a party, says Emily. As it turns out, Jonathan was an old school friend… of Emily’s girlfriend at the time. For some couples, that might have meant a rocky start; for this progressive pair, it meant a “kinda open” relationship from the get-go with plenty of freedom to explore new things and share their sexuality with others. 

“We decided to explore the swinger clubs and sex clubs when we moved to Berlin and also had some dates with other couples,” they explain. “After these experiences, we decided to open up the relationship completely so each of us went on adventures alone.” As both lovers and best friends, they say that they’ve navigated jealousy and their egos, and remain “the most connected persons for each other and the most amazing sex partners”. 

“We decided to explore the swinger clubs and sex clubs when we moved to Berlin and also had some dates with other couples.”

While they don’t live together, meaning their sex life often depends on their schedules, when they do get together, it’s always characterized by playfulness and sensuality. 

“Our sex life is generally shaped by a fixed dominant/submissive role dynamic, in which Jonathan plays the dominant and Emily the submissive part,” they say. “This includes classic BDSM practices such as bondage, shibari, and other restraints, slapping, choking and non-verbal degradation. Still, we don’t let the sensuality we likewise enjoy disappear from our sessions completely. Anal sex, deep throating and also sessions with an extended foreplay and playing around for hours without penetrative sex are some of our kinks.”

Of course, this playful approach to intimacy extends beyond the bedroom too. They’ve amassed a jaw-dropping collection of crazy sex stories over the years, from a camping trip that saw them losing track of time at the riverside, meaning they simply had to fuck under the stars until sunrise, to finding creative ways to get it on in a paddle boat. It’s only natural that this sense of adventure has now brought them straight to Lustery…