Why is filming yourself masturbating so hot? Let’s talk about it!

Have you ever wondered why filming yourself masturbating is so hot? POV by Lustery writer Anne Shark inspires you to try it and find out.

6 Reasons to Film Homemade Masturbation Videos

6 Reasons to Film Yourself Masturbating

, audio erotica, imagining that hot barista taking you to the back room and absolutely ruining you… there’s an endless number of ways to turn yourself on. One thing that can get lost in the mix is something that’s so powerful, yet often taken for granted — 

. Here's why we think you should film homemade masturbation videos. 

Your sexuality, your sensuality, your pleasure. Sometimes we lose sight of this, and getting off becomes transactional. We’re all for ethical porn to help you get off 

), but sometimes it’s nice to get back to basics and really spend some solo playtime focused on nothing but your own body and mind.

Are you interested in reconnecting with your primal, passionate self-desire? If so, I’m here to challenge you: film your next masturbation sesh and begin your practice of making homemade masturbation videos. Trust me on this — filming yourself masturbating is incredibly hot. Why?

Why you should make homemade masturbation videos:

Human beings are at their most vulnerable state when we’re naked. And yet, it’s such a natural, empowering state. So it’s honestly fucking liberating to film yourself masturbating. Don’t believe me? Try it yourself!

Watch as the unfiltered, unedited pleasure is etched onto your face. Watch as your body shivers and writhes against the bed while the waves of pleasure move through you. Watch as the aftermath of the orgasm lulls you into a completely relaxed state.

For some reason, society has always put masturbation on the “we don’t talk about it” list. It’s “gross”, it’s “indecent”, some even think it’s “immoral”. But really, masturbation can be incredibly empowering and beautiful.

Homemade masturbation videos might sound absolutely terrifying to you. I know it did to me when I first started. No one can look flawless from every angle. But that’s the point - we’re not flawless beings. That birthmark that you have, those stretch lines, the slight sag to your breasts - 

those are the things that make your body yours

Film yourself indulging in a solo sex sesh a few times and I promise you, those things you used to hate when you looked at the mirror will start becoming normal. They may even become things that you love about yourself.

Solo pleasure sessions are a great time to explore. Whether it’s a new toy, a new kink, or something else entirely, this time is yours. Especially if you’re interested in trying something new with your partner, it’s so much easier (and way less intense) to try it yourself first.

Pro tip: what could be a better way to introduce it to your partner than sending them a video of you masturbating?

It keeps you connected with long-distance lovers.

Sexting is fun and all, but spontaneous homemade masturbation videos of you fucking yourself will grab their attention in all the best ways. Shooting your solo session can be a fun way to spice things up for long-distance lovers—as a little surprise for your partner, or something you plan ahead. Either way can be an adventure.

It lets you connect (or reconnect) with yourself.

While it may be fun to film yourself masturbating for a lover, it can be even better to film homemade masturbation videos for no particular reason at all. Reconnect with yourself, 

, and remember what really works for you— or discover it anew.

For a long time in Western cultures, masturbation was a shameful secret, not spoken of too loudly. And when people (especially women) talk about it, there's still a certain amount of judgment. No more.

 tonight. Film it, then watch it. Get off again while watching it. Embrace your sensuality, your outlook on pleasure, and your relationship with your own sexual self. You'll be so much better off for it.