After four years together following a dating app match, California-based couple Haskell Holland and J are the first to admit they’re “total homebodies” that seek comfort and familiarity in their everyday lives. While their comfort zone includes plenty of sex, smoking weed, yummy snacks and snuggles, it’s also a safe space for kinkier play and exploration. “We’re definitely both super into gagging and forced face fucking,” they say. Being together has also brought out J’s dominant side and a penchant for dirty talk – much to Haskell’s delight.