You've probably heard a million times that communication is the key – the secret ingredient on which every great intimate connection stands or falls. It is also the first major building block of that elusive springboard to experience: trust. Like all good things, becoming a great communicator takes time, patience and above all: practice.
Everyone has a different appetite, and sex drives are no different. Some people ask for seconds and some people don’t like feeling full. Everyone has a basic set of needs that determines their libidinous energy, but there is another set of factors at play here as well.
There are lots of relationship options that you might consider. The basic break-down is probably best known as monogamy (meaning you only have one sexual partner or husband/wife) at a time, and non-monogamy, but it is much more complex than that.
Dear reader, I really wish you’re one of the lucky ones who has had, in their time, a manifest and bountiful number of orgasms. That you and your partners came and came. But in case you’re a women* and had sex with guys, you’ve probably been let down on that account. You know what I’m talking about: The orgasm gap.